Friday, June 24, 2011

Happy Birthday, Dear Anna...

Our Anna turned 2 today! We are so thankful for this bundle of energetic delight!

Here she is! Enjoying a special straw and special juice at her birthday breakfast. She's also enjoying a new dress that came in the mail from her Grammie in Maine and a new headband from her Auntie Bri.

Isaiah has been counting down to Anna's birthday for months! He was so excited that you might have thought it was his special day.

Daddy made animal balloons for everyone!

How did Mommy pull off BBQ chicken-wing pizza for supper?!!

Happy Birthday to you! Homemade brownie cupcakes...

Need I say more?

Happy 2nd Birthday, Anna Delight!
You are a joy to us, and to every person whose life you touch!



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Sunday, June 5, 2011

It's Mango Season!

We all must admit that there is one great thing that comes with the hot season - MANGOES! I had never eaten fresh mangoes before coming to Niger, and I must say that they are absolutely amazing! So sweet, juicy, and perfect, especially on a hot day. Our family spent a few days this last week preparing and freezing dozens of mangoes. The mango season is short, just a few weeks long, and we want to have them all throughout the year. We thought you'd enjoy a glimpse into our day. It made for a great family activity. Everyone got involved, everyone had fun, and we all ate way too many mangoes along the way! It was great!

Are we ready?!! Yes, we are. Daddy mans the washing station along with his two little helpers.

Everyone pitched in...

Beautiful mangoes...


Now we're coring the mangoes, cutting out the sweet fruit, then discarding the tough layer of skin and the large seed.


BUT no seed was thrown out before getting a final cleaning by our clean-up crew, Isaiah and Anna.

Mmmm-mmm-good! Oh, wait, that's Campbell's.
Well, this is Mmmm-mmm-good, too!

Working away...

Isaiah takes a turn at cutting out the fruit. He only gets a butterknife, though. I love how serious about his job he is right here!



Here's Mommy! Check out the ghetto dish-towel head tie. The days are not only hot now, they're muggy, too. It was SOOO hot in the kitchen that I couldn't even see because I was so sweating so much. The kitchen towel was a perfect fix for that! I've had some people comment on my apron. It's very special to me, because my mom made it for me before we came to Niger. In gorgeous, colorful display, the design depicts African women and children dancing in celebration as it begins to rain. Quite fitting, I think. We have received rain 3 times since my last blog, and we have danced in celebration every time.

Now I think it's time for a mango smoothie!!!

Oh, just wanted to let you know, we are saving some mangoes in the freezer just for guests who come visit us in Niger!

Come on over - we're ready!


Monday, May 16, 2011

Where Did the Water Go?

The hot season in Niger. It is dreaded by Nigeriens and missionaries alike. I had one friend liken it to childbirth - you forget how bad it is until you go through it again. Jonathan and I occasionally look at each other and say, “Well, we’re really doing it! We are really enduring the heat of Niger."

In the hot season:
• My candles melt on their own. I can shape and form them like soft dough in my hands.
• The water (when we have it) comes out of the tap hot – almost hot enough to burn. I have to be careful when I pour water for the children.
• The kittens' milk curdles within hours.
• The walls of the house are all hot to the touch – they feel like an oven that was turned off several minutes ago.
• When we mop the floor, we don’t wring the water out. One side of the room is dry by the time we reach the other side.
• I don’t worry about spills. They’ll dry within minutes.

As we delve into the heat of the hot season, we are discovering that the this time of year isn’t difficult simply because it’s hot, but because other resources run low as well. We jokingly have “3 Essentials” to living well in Niger. Electricity, water, and internet. I know, I know. They aren’t all essential to living, but they certainly do make things easier to cope with. The one that IS essential to life is water. And lately we’ve been asking ourselves, “Where did the water go?”

Well, there is no specific answer to this question. Not really, but there are some really solid reasons for why it’s been disappearing lately…

1. It’s running about 115 degrees outside during the day, and probably about 100 inside. If we’re lucky, the cooler rooms in the house are probably in the 90s. With AC on, which we only have in our bedrooms, and run at night and naptimes, we get it down to the 80s.
2. It hasn’t rained in over 7 months.
3. Everyone NEEDS water, so when there is water, it's in high demand.
4. Oh, yeah, did I mention that we live in a desert, that it’s 115 degrees out, and that everyone needs water?

It seems that the water supply is now being rationed. We have hardly had running water in the house during the day for several weeks now. It’s been cut at about 7am, and may come back on between 10pm-12am.

This means:
• Late nights and early mornings filling buckets so that we will have essential water throughout the day
• Drinking water comes first. Only if there’s extra do we do dishes, cleaning, etc.
• Bucket baths only. What’s a bucket bath? Using a cup of water, dipping water from a bucket, and pouring it over one’s head. Try this on exceptionally muddy/sandy children. It’s a real riot!
• Giving the dishes a bucket bath. Seriously never realized how much I love having running water for washing dishes!
• No laundry. Oh, yeah, in 115 degree heat. The dirty clothes pile is getting higher and higher. Thankfully, at least one day a week, we’ve had enough running water to wash a few loads. Praise God!
• Limited ability to clean in the house.
• Rationing toilet flushes. I won’t go into details, but I’m sure you can imagine how this affects one’s life!
• No extra water for play. Isaiah and Anna can’t swim in their little pool, because there isn’t enough water to fill it. Somehow, they manage to find a little water to play with here and there (one day, unbeknown to me, it was the filtered (precious!) drinking water, other times, they sneak into the buckets that are allocated for bathing and dishes).

And so we slog through the month of May, knowing that all things must come to an end, even the heat of Nigerien hot season. We all look to the sky, hoping to see rain clouds. We dream of rain, forgetting that the rainy season brings humidity and loads of bugs. But still, we dream of rain! It should be coming in just a few weeks.

The remaining “essentials” from our “3 Essentials” are electricity and internet. While we do have electricity most of the time, we experience a phenomenon that was most definitely foreign (no pun intended!) to me when we lived in the States. It is that of fluctuating electrical current. Yes, we have electricity, but the strength of the current sways back and forth between good and barely functioning. Our fans may be on “high”, but there are many times that I can watch every blade as it lazily makes its way around and round. It’s like the electricity has a rhythm – up and down, up and down, up and down. Very difficult on appliances! We usually don’t notice this problem, but our air conditioners (which we keep in our rooms and run at night and naptimes), have a certain threshold of electricity that they need to pump out the cold air. Therefore, we have electricity, but if the current isn’t high enough, the AC units are pumping out warm, humid air. Sigh… You know it’s bad when the room with the AC on is hotter than the other 100-degree rooms!

Internet, which has been great up to this point, has decided to cop out on us, too! It’s been flashing on and off all day, not on long enough to check email, write email, or post a blog. I’m writing this in faith that it will come back on soon!

On the flip side of things, there is living water that is flowing freely in this desert! The living water that Jesus offers is never rationed! We find ourselves flowing from one event to another – this week, there is a Pastor’s Conference for all Vie Abondante pastors, we are hosting Pastor Ron Childs in our home, and Jonathan is coordinating a Youth Camp event that will be taking place this coming Friday-Sunday. The definition of youth is between the ages of 15-26, and we are expecting from 60-90 youth to be present. The Bible School has 3 weeks remaining before the end of the first semester. Jonathan has absolutely loved teaching these new believers “The Attributes of God”. Last week, we took part in the baptism of 9 of the Bible School students. It was incredible! As each student entered the water, his/her classmates sang and joyfully danced nearby. After the baptism, I turned to Jonathan and said, “THAT made every moment of difficulty worth it all.” Yes, we may be fighting heat, lack of physical comfort, and inconvenience, but, like the tribulation of childbirth, the results are worth it all, and the pain of labor is forgotten.

In eternity, we won’t remember the “3 E’s for Living Well in Niger”. We won’t ever wonder where the water has gone. We’ll be with Jesus, the source, and that is all that matters.


(This was written 10 days ago on May 9th. We had our first rain 3 days later on May 12th.)

Monday, April 25, 2011

Our First Easter in Niger

We shared a beautiful Easter Sunday with the Christian believers in Niger. What a privilege! One of the things that stood out to us most was the simplicity of the celebration - it was a celebration that focused on Jesus alone. The Nigeriens that we celebrated Jesus' Resurrection with all know the meaning of suffering for His name's sake. They have faced persecution, they have forsaken all, and they are thankful for the joy, peace, forgiveness, and abundant life that His death and resurrection made available to them. There was such excitement in the air as everyone gathered in the church to celebrate!


Like many believers, our family had special outfits made for Easter Sunday. Easter is the primary Christian celebration in Niger, with Christmas coming in second. Many people spent weeks preparing for the Easter weekend! There were multiple meetings from Good Friday through Easter Sunday, one of which included a showing of the Jesus Film at the church Saturday evening. Christmas brings the birth of the baby, but Easter celebrates the power of the risen, victorious King! Hallelujah!




Our family sang a special in Hausa, "Yesu ya mutu bisa giciye saboda ni, yanzu ina da yanci!" (Jesus died on the cross for me, and now I am free!)
Jonathan and Isaiah wrote this song, and it is now one of Isaiah's favorites.



Here they are...




...two Bowden cutie-bugs enjoy the worship, and each other!


They're becoming the best of friends.



Giggles...



And more giggles...

After the service, everyone gathered for a celebration feast! Everyone had brought a "dish to pass". All the "dishes" were served out onto large trays, then divvied out to groups of people. Here is Anna, ready to dig in. We all sat in a circle around the food (most of which was rice, stew, and yam), and ate with our right hand from our area of the platter. Don't worry, everyone washed their hands before eating!


So hungry! Can we start yet?!!



Anna and Mommy! Anna still amazes the Nigeriens by her incredible appetite and love of all.foods. They've never seen anything like it, and think it is simply wonderful.



Daddy and Isaiah with the pastors and church leaders.



Daddy helps Anna wash up at the pump on the church compound. The motos that you see in the foreground belong to our pastors. They are the primary means of vehicle transportation in Maradi. Most people travel on foot, though.



Walking back together... I love these Daddy-Daughter moments!



The youth in the church wrapped up the day by dancing joyfully after the meal.

What a special day! We'll never forget our first Easter in Niger!

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Tiny Additions

I am now the new "mommy" of three tiny, motherless kittens. We were originally hoping to take one or two of the litter after they had been weaned, but when their kitty-mommy was found dead three mornings ago, our plans changed a bit. Hand-feeding three hungry little mouths seemed like a pretty big task, but I would dare say that the whole Bowden family is enjoying the bouncing balls of fur that have joined the family!


Tiny kitties... just after we brought them home.


The kittens weren't used to being around people, so they were quite skiddish at first. I am thankful that we had the chance to hand-feed them. They are already warming up to us. They all come running when they hear me coming, tripping, head-over-heels, and falling into a big pile at my feet!



Beginning to explore...


It took everyone a while to adjust to eachother. We have to adjust to having little balls of fluff chasing our feet, playing with our toes, and meowing loudly whenever they're hungry or alone. .I am sure, for a fact, that the kittens are the ones with the greatest adjusting to do! . Nothing in their previous little lives could have prepared them for the initial shock of two excited, enthusiastic Bitty Bowdens! Isaiah and Anna are small to us, but to these kittens, they are giants! .The children are learning the valuable lessons of being gentle, being still, and being quiet. The kittens are also beginning to enjoy playing with Isaiah and Anna, and aren't as bashful around them as they were the first day.



I was very thankful when they started drinking from a plate, instead of needing to be dropper-fed!



Little buddies now...



It's good for the soul to see the three little tykes sound asleep in one big lump. Someday we'd like to get a dog, but for now, these are some wonderful tiny additions to our home in Niger!

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Please Keep Praying...

We would like to give you a quick update on Umi, Rebecca's daughter. Just this last week, she returned to live with her father, upon his request. Rebecca didn't have much say in the matter, and is feeling sad at not being able to have Umi live with her right now. We are thankful, however, that Rebecca now has a wonderful relationship with Umi, one that she was never able to have before! While she lived here, Umi began learning how to read and write, she lived in an environment that was saturated with the love of Jesus, and we watched her blossom beautifully. Please pray with us that all of the seeds sown in her life during her season with Rebecca would bear fruit in the next seasons of her life!

Rebecca will be able to keep in touch with her, and again, we are thankful for that. Thank you for praying and covering this family, rejoicing with them and grieving with them. It is a beautiful picture of how the Body of Christ should function. Please continue to stand with us in prayer for them!

Much Love ~ Dani

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Gifts from My Carpenter

Jonathan gave me a gift this week! Actually, several gifts. He built shelves in our house for me! I was thrilled.
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Isaiah also got to enjoy some great Daddy time in the process. There's no better place for a little boy to learn from than from his Daddy.

Learning to use the square...

Our house hardly had any shelving. This closet in the children's room was nice and spacious, but without shelves, I couldn't put much in it. This was one of the biggest projects Jonathan tackled for me. He spent two hours looking around Maradi for nice wood.
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Daddy's saw is loud!
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While at the time, we weighed the advantages and disadvantages of bringing Jonathan's tools (no pun intended - those things are HEAVY), we are now so thankful for what we were able to bring, and even wish we could have brought more! Things break frequently here - just from the heat, the dust and the harsh climate. Jonathan has put all of his tools to great use in our home, in the churches, the Bible School, and in the homes of other friends and missionaries. His practical skills are a blessing wherever he goes!
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Learning how to drill...
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We want to say a special THANK YOU to our friends, Andrew and Licia, for mailing us the drill bits that Jonathan needs for drilling into cement. Without them, he wouldn't have been able to build shelves for me. You guys are such a blessing! Thank you!
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Learning to measure...
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There is a nice view of our spacious front porch in these pictures! The kids spend a lot of time playing out here. We just put up zenna, the straw thatch that you can see in the picture above. It cuts the temperature way down on the porch, and keeps the glaring sun off the tile for most of the day. The temps are now over 100 on a daily basis, so we are using any available way we can to cut the heat.
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Holding the tape-mearsure for Daddy. Great job!

Even Anna gets to be involved, but only for a little while. She was a bit TOO "helpful"! .:)

Final touches before we can hang the shelves!

And here are the shelves going UP!

Needless to say, Jonathan had one happy little wife after he blessed me with his carpentry skills! What a difference these "gifts from my carpenter" made in my home. Now I have shelves to put things up HIGH (why would I need to put things up high? Oh, yes, that's right - I have two small, insatiably curious children). Now I can rest in peace, knowing that our things are well organized, will remain well organized, and that dangerous things, such as cleaning products, are out of the reach of little hands.
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And what a blessing these "gifts from my carpenter" were to his little son. Isaiah came away with a huge smile and a puffed up chest - he had gotten to be Daddy's big helper for the day, and that meant the world to him.
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